To: Twinny || Sunday, September 28, 2014 @ 3:04 PM
This reminds me of you.
I'm really thankful to have met you in my life.
You're the special someone who has:
- taught me alot and one of the most important things is - friendship
- stayed through with me after my ex left me for another girl
- folded an orange heart for me just to cheer me up ;)
- played pranks on me w chengfu & raymond (but it's just so fun!)
- accompanied me to koufu everyday for vegetarian lunch
- planned wonderful birthday surprises for me
- there's always so much of laughter when we're together!
It's almost the most wonderful thing to have met you :)
Some friends, they just want the best for you, no matter what.
Twinny, she's definitely one. Cutest jingyi too :)
Adaptation || Saturday, September 20, 2014 @ 2:26 PM
When we fall on tough times, adaptation is always there, like a trusted friend, to make sure the negative feelings don't last forever.
#frombigmummy
Help || Monday, September 15, 2014 @ 9:50 AM
Big mummy,
please bless me with more wisdom & courage
to guide the younger generation
& please, bless me with more strength in letting him go ..
Click || Sunday, September 14, 2014 @ 8:28 PM
Came across this picture while I was browsing,
It brought me memories of how we used to 'click'
#confidant, I miss you.
Superboy I'm sorry, if I've yet to let go.
But trust me, our relationship is alot healthier now.
I promise to let go, just give me some time..
今晚，特别想他 || Thursday, September 11, 2014 @ 11:47 PM
Seek first to understand || Monday, September 1, 2014 @ 2:20 PM
, then to be understood.
I've learned this well last week, when my friend shared with me her troubles, something that she would never share with anyone else. It was through that conversation that I started to understand her more, her decisions and her actions. And I finally understood all her words, everything she once spoke to me. In the past, I always took her words lightly, thinking that it was merely excuses for her laziness. So I take every opportunity to stretch her limits, and hoping that she would understand my intention of helping her grow.
But never did I know how hard life had been on her, the amount of burden she has to share at such a young age. It is indeed overwhelming, but it was never a choice for her. I felt so helpless that I couldn't do anything, except to listen patiently to all her troubles. But at least, now when I hear this from her "Sorry, I can't", I would understand why.
Lesson learnt: Seek first to understand, then to be understood
Lesson learnt: Seek first to understand, then to be understood
Exercise 3x/week